Jim,
I've asked Alexey for a D2 model to retest. We no longer have one of the dual band units here from SkyRadar. We have several other dual band units from other makers and we are seeing the 1090 traffic on those. I was talking with Walter and he said he thinks SkyRadar is doing something different with the 1090 decoding, basically different than the standard GDL90 protocol. Once we get the D2 from Alexi, we'll see what is going on.
You are correct in that the ADS-B out should wake up the tower. If you are in range of the 978 ground tower and your "out" device has triggered it, you should be seeing both 978 and 1090 traffic in your service volume via the ground signal. The way to tell is if you see a callsign or tail number on that traffic, it is direct air to air. If the tail number is a N number it's most likely oui out. If it is AA or UA or commercial, then you can bet it's 1090.
We will get this worked out and thanks for your help with this.